My father is turning 88 years old on Friday July 27th. As I reflect on his life I can only say that he has been the most resilient of all his good friends. I say that because most of his good friends have now passed on. He has also outlived all his brothers. I say this not to brag but to just state the facts. My father’s mother lived to the great age of 93! I just wonder how long God will allow us to have him around. When people ask me how he’s doing, my first reaction is, “why don’t you go see him?” I would say it with a smile but it also has a cutting seriousness. As someone who goes to nursing homes I see the loneliness of so many people who have been storehoused. Out of sight, out of mind. Even I have to remember that he is there and it’s not going to kill me to pop in for a few minutes.
It’s just like I call my mother every day. sometimes twice a day. When I have told people this they say “WHY?” and I always reply, “because I can!” The only redeeming fact I can rely on is that my dad gets excellent care by a hard working staff. That is a difficult vocation and if you do not love the elderly then maybe you shouldn’t work there. I always teasingly say that I speak “senior citizen.” There is an honest truth to that. Sometimes our aged loved ones don’t always grasp concepts and it requires extra time and patience to reassure our beloved’s that all is well.
On Saturday I am having a birthday party for him. Sister Sue is driving down from Minneapolis to be here. I’ve invited dad’s sisters and have tried to get the word out to the cousins. It will be a simple celebration. I made some taco meat and fried some tostada shells. We’ll probably have the staples of beans and rice; the usual! Our simple ancestral foods that never cease to delight us. We will create a memory and it will give papa a chance to bust out of the home. It will be some simple down time. Time to smile, relax and be with one another while we are still here. There will be a day when even those present will only be a memory. Happy Birthday Papa! I love you!
Beth halfman setting up the drinks and Ice Cream Booth. They make the best Root Beer Floats!
My feature picture is from last year’s Festival but it pretty much looks the same as far as setting up. Getting everything ready has been a lot of work but this year we are really kind of feeling our groove as we have made so many more new positive changes. One of the things that we’ve had to do the past two years is to upgrade much of our equipment such as electrical wiring and new coolers and roasters. This equipment sure does take a beating over these four days.
Our ladies (and gentlemen) in the kitchen have been grueling away at making the festival food. Our Knights f Columbus have been helping us haul out equipment from the pole barn and our young men on the crew have been assembling the booths.
Last weekend and this weekend our festival chairpersons have been in the lobby of the church trying to recruit help for the festival. It takes many helping hands to put it all together to make our festival a success.
These past few days have brought on the heat and much needed rain which is fine but we will still be praying for good festival weather regardless. I can handle the heat but the rain keeps the folks away.
Modern Midways will start bringing in their stuff by the end of the week and the stage for the bands will be assembled too. We have some mighty fine entertainment coming in. One of the things we’re doing is bringing in a Mariachi Band from Indianapolis to play on Sunday night from 6:00 pm to 9:00 pm. We’re hoping this new venue will bring in some fun with an ethnic flair!
Until then it’s time to get back to work and we hope to see you there!
I was offline for awhile. Our server host had some kind of computer problems but it seems to be okay for now. These past few weeks have been incredible. Saying goodbye to our 8th Graders was really tough. A great group of kids whom I will truly miss. Our school next year is going to be almost at maximum. We picked up a few families from St. Bridget with the announcement that their school is closing it’s doors. I find this to be a very sad situation whenever we close another school. I had high hopes for St. Bridget as I’m sure they did. It is a wonderful facility and a great city.
We had some tough news on the let day of school. One of our school kids was hit by a car. He suffered a broken foot which is going to lay him up for most of the summer. I would ask you to keep Tyler Chandler in your prayers. He’s a great kid with awesome parents and they are sticking very close to him these days.
Our festival is quickly approaching and we always seem to think we have everything together and we always forget a few items. Nothing life threatening but something we didn’t see that kind of smacks us in the face.
I have my garden in place and I have several tomatoes plants, jalapeños and Serrano peppers along with one cucumber plant and tons of herbs like basil, cilantro, thyme and marjoram.
I am also loving this hot weather. As long as I can find respite in air conditioning I’m fine.
I’ve also been keeping a close eye on my oldest dog, Molly. It appears that she is slowly fading as the leukemia is settling in. My little momma never complains and is as strident as the day I got her over 10 years ago. I know that by the end of this year I may have to go the tough way of sending her across the Rainbow Bridge. I don’t feel as weepy about this as I would have before losing two previous dogs. I think her son, Gus II will miss her most since she still babies him. so, we shall see how this all goes!
Well, actually it’s kind of chilly today but warm weather is right around the corner now! But it’s JUNE! I have officially declared it to be Festival Mode Time! I love this time of the year because we get to see the fruits of our labors come alive. I really don’t have much more to add than the fact that the church remembers St. Justin, martyr!
I don’t know why I have such a hard time keeping up with my blog. It’s not like I don’t have anything worthwhile to express. I certainly do. My discipline is lacking in this category. So there.
So let me start off by saying that I have now entered into Festival mode. All the planning we have been doing is now coming to the forefront and I am getting excited about it. I think we have some awesome bands lined up. I will be especially curious to see how the Mariachi band will fare on Sunday night.
My summer staff is home from college and they are busy getting the church look great for the summer. We will breaking in a new guy this summer. Actually he’s not new because he is one of parish kids but he will be getting his taste of work.
The month of May was just as hectic as I knew it would be. There is so much going on and without another priest here to assist, I become overwhelmed at all the work. This is where I’m so grateful to have three deacons. I have been pushing off a lot of work on them. I am simply letting them be the deacons they were ordained to be! To serve!
There are some things I am not able to let them have more freedom with and to be quite blunt….it is preaching. The reason why is that it is the only time I can reach out and express the Gospel and connect with my people. Yes, I am a little greedy and self-centered in that regards.
So, having said that , I will try to post again and soon. God Bless you all!
I got back from Washington D. C. one week ago and since then it’s been a whirlwind of activity. The trip with our 8th graders was wonderful. The kids were perfect. One major glitch that was no fault of our own and that was when our bus hit the side view mirror of another bus. Doesn’t sound like a big deal but it crashed into the windows along one side of our bus and blew out all the window. Frightening….you bet. Luckily, the glass did what it was supposed to do and that was to shatter instead of shard. Our entire bus was sprayed with little pellets that found themselves everywhere including hair and clothing. Within an hour we were able to get a new bus and be on our way.
As usual, Gettysburg was awesome. We had Jim Roubal again as our guide. He is so awesome and he has a good memory. I have learned so much more as an adult about our country’s history by visiting these historic places. Of course, Mt. Vernon and the Naval Academy are cool too!
I really got to know some of our kids who are leaving us. They are genuinely nice kids and like the kids we had two years ago, I will really miss them. I also got to know some of our parents too and they were a blast too.
The school year is beginning to wind down but our parish is never asleep. We are already filling up for next year. Our pre-K and 1st Grade is on a waiting list and I imagine that we will be repeating this with the other grades too as the days move forward. I can’t even begin to express the pride I feel when hard work bears good fruit.
With the CSA (Catholic Services Appeal) beginning this weekend, I hope I can convince the Nativity community to be generous again. I would really like to put the roof repairs behind us and start working on some of the other things we need around here. Such as, our narthex! I would like to replace the cringing, put in new lighting, paint the walls, completely remodel the bathrooms, and rip out the carpet and replace it with tile. That’s all!
The festival will also be here before we know it and just about everything in that is pretty well set. Raffle tickets will be going out shortly and the new revamping of that should prove to be profitable provided that we execute it properly. By the way, the tickets went from a dollar a piece to $5 a ticket. the winnings are up too along with the odds of winning.
Thats all for now!
I’m not even going to apologize for not being daily on this blog. Let’s just say I’ll do what I can!
This week I will be leaving for Washington, D.C. with my 8th graders and their chaperones. This will be my third trip with them. They are so much fun and they are also exhausting. I’m not talking about the kids, I’m talking about the itinerary. All we do is keep moving, moving, moving. Funny how I never get tired of seeing the same thing over and over. D.C. is an awesome town. My favorite places are the Newsuem, Gettysburg and the Naval Academy.
The personality of the groups are different too. This years group is going to be a lot of fun. Last years group was pure drama. There were a few great kids in that bunch but there were a few stinkers. And you know who you are!!!
Now that we’ve turned off the Easter parade we begin our trek towards the end of the school year, raffle tickets and of course the Parish Festival! It never ends! And please God, don’t let it end too soon.
Hosanna, to the King of David!
With the beginning of Holy Week also begins a very busy week for the church. There are so many last minute details that need tending to and you would think after all the Holy Weeks I’ve been through I would know better. This year will be a bit different whereas I had to go through my old Holy Week scripts and change all the prayers. I am actually beginning to get the feel of the new rhythm that are part of this “big” change. I guess its always natural to whine about change.
I am hoping again for another great year atNativity. Actually a year that will produce even greater results. Our membership is up, attendance is up, the collection is up! Everything is going up! But in reality that could all change if things are not moved in a positive way. I guess thats always on the back of my mind. I am no so concerned about my success as I am about the parish. I also have to admit that there is some hope that when I do leave here, I will have made a difference in the lives of this community…and all for the good. So,….for my fleeting moment of vanity, there it is!
Going to New York City last week was an important milestone in my life. I came home feeling more appreciative of what have over what I don’t have. My dear friend in New York sort of awakened something in me that I was not seeing in my own life. It is simply this; I am where I am supposed to be! But sometimes I will need to get on a plane a bus or a train to go there and come to terms over and over again. In other words, getting away is refreshing!
As I live through this week, I will do what I do every Holy Week. I will submerge myself in His presence!
One of my best friends posted about how his weight loss helped him get rid of his diabetes medicine. His joy is shared to all and I rejoice with him. The days of putting insulin in my body were days that reminded me of all that was wrong with me. Even though I have (knock on wood) beat diabetes, I am still very cautious about what I put inside of me.
To be morbidly obese is a terrible disease. Not only physically but mentally and spiritually. For years I built an identity that revolved on my “largeness” therefore minimizing the person I truly was! I can honestly say now that looking back, I was miserable. But re-inventing my new self was just as difficult as creating the old self. So instead of creating an identity, I had to become who I truly was inside. And you know what, I like who I am now more than ever. If you are reading this and scratching your head in wonder, that’s okay! But if you get it…..even better.
I am experiencing what i feel is the best parish community I have had thus far. But there were building blocks and lessons learned in my formation as a priest. I can look back at all my former parishes and tell you that my buddy whom I first mentioned had a lot to do with building me to be the priest that I am today. He was tough but I learned so much from him. So, ingratitude to him and in tribute to his success, I acknowledge the wonderful generosity of his inner spirit who has finally “gotten” what he has needed to complete himself.
Twenty more days!
Hello friends. so much for pledging to keep the sight updated. I have been busy in a good way. My Lent has been off to a good start. Of course, I’ve had the usual landslide of funerals that often come at this time of the year. I am amazed at how many of my friends are dying. Some natural and some not so natural. but is it really natural to die in your 50’s?
Speaking of dying, I dumped my new doctor and went to see another guy. To my happiness, he is one of my former students at Bishop Noll Institute. What a terrific young man he has turned out to be. but of course, I am not surprised because he was always exceptional. It’s just that now he is the overseer to my good health. How many of you can boast that your cholesterol is 106?
Yesterday was the half way point for Lent. We have 20 more days to go and I so look forward to Easter. With the early spring I have been taking care of some of the things I normally do in late April. I had my carports cleaned, Living room and dining room painted and gathered up all the clothes I’m not wearing anymore for the Poor Box. I even cleaned out all the dead stuff from my outdoor planters and swept the patio. today I hope to do a little raking and maybe taking the root-tiller out to my plant boxes. Sure does feel good!